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Where You End the Story
“If you want a happy ending, that depends, of course, on where you stop your story.” — Orson Welles We all live through chapters that don’t look like they’ll have a happy ending. The heartbreak. The loss. The disappointment that sneaks in after you’ve tried so hard to do everything right. Sometimes it’s a relationship that didn’t last. Sometimes it’s a dream that feels like it’s slipping out of reach. And sometimes it’s just that quiet ache of wondering if you’ll ever get to
Sherri Bence
9 hours ago2 min read
Discipline Is Prioritizing Future Me- And It’s Honestly So Lovely
Lately I’ve been sitting with something Chase Hughes said about discipline, and I realized that’s how I changed my perspective on my health. “Discipline is prioritizing your future self.” Not punishing yourself. Not forcing yourself. Not grinding until you’re numb. Just… choosing her. The woman I’m becoming. The one I see so clearly- steady, powerful, soft, radiant, leading with authority and ease. The one who already exists in my spirit before she arrives fully in my timelin
Sherri Bence
Nov 212 min read
Why Change Feels So Damn Hard: The Truth About Cognitive Behavioral Dissonance
Let’s be honest, most of us say we want change, but when it starts happening, our brains and bodies fight it like we’re under attack. We...
Sherri Bence
Oct 92 min read
Trauma as Elite Spiritual Athleticism
Most people think trauma ruins you. And it can if you let it. But there’s another truth no one talks about: trauma can train you into an...
Sherri Bence
Aug 72 min read
Radical Accountability: The Training Ground for a Better You
There’s a version of me that used to deflect, justify, and sugarcoat my own shortcomings. Not because I was trying to be fake, but...
Sherri Bence
Aug 22 min read
The Dad I Miss Never Really Existed — But I Miss Him Anyway
Since my dad passed, living in his house has been like walking through a memory I never actually had. It’s wild, we didn’t have a...
Sherri Bence
Jul 252 min read
Shifting My Goals From the Outcome to the Process
I’ve been thinking a lot about the difference between setting goals I win at… and setting goals that just leave me feeling like I’m...
Sherri Bence
Jul 202 min read
Designed for You: How Every Relationship is a Mirror Calling You Back to Yourself
What if I told you that every category of your life- romance, family, friendships is divinely designed not just to teach you about...
Sherri Bence
Jul 112 min read
“The Beauty (and Terror) of Being Seen: Baby Steps Toward Vulnerability”
“Vulnerability is the only authentic state.” That line hit me in the gut the moment I read it. Not because I didn’t already know it, but...
Sherri Bence
Jul 52 min read
“The Longest Way Is the Shortcut”
I’ve been thinking about this paradox lately how the longest way is almost always the shortcut. It’s not sexy. It’s not viral. It’s not...
Sherri Bence
May 182 min read
Don’t Just Be a Hammer, Be Like Dora
There’s a quote I love that always stops me in my tracks: “It is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as...
Sherri Bence
May 171 min read
The Frequency of the Inevitable
Someone said something the other day that made me think: “Your frequency is what you’ve emotionally accepted as inevitable.” Read that...
Sherri Bence
May 62 min read
The Storm Reveals Our Roots
It’s easy to feel grounded when everything’s going your way. When the sun is out, your money’s flowing, your kids are thriving, your...
Sherri Bence
Apr 302 min read
We Need Our Opponents as Much as Our Coaches
People love to talk about their mentors. Their guides. Their soul sisters and coaches and the people who poured into them, who cheered...
Sherri Bence
Apr 301 min read
Even when it doesn’t feel like it…
Sometimes the most radical thing we can do is trust that we’re already aligned. We get so caught up in chasing, fixing, proving, healing,...
Sherri Bence
Apr 202 min read
If You Have to Make a Choice, Choose the One That Creates a Bigger Life
I was listening to Lori Gottlieb on Andrew Huberman’s podcast the other day, and she said something that grabbed me by the soul: “If you...
Sherri Bence
Apr 112 min read
From Self-Expression to Self-Consciousness: The Existential Crisis That Complicated Me (and Why I’m Grateful)
There was a time when I lived mostly in self-expression—raw, bold, unapologetic. I did what I felt. I said what I meant. I moved through...
Sherri Bence
Mar 292 min read
We Underestimate the Climb — and That’s Why We Stall
You ever set a goal and think, “Okay, I just need to do X, Y, and Z and I’ll be there,” and then weeks pass, and you’re either burnt out...
Sherri Bence
Mar 212 min read
The Shadow Side of Intimacy: Why Unhealed Wounds Keep Us From Deep Connection
Intimacy isn’t just about love, sex, or partnership, is about being seen. Truly seen. And that’s where things get tricky. Because when we...
Sherri Bence
Mar 23 min read


Pain as a Portal: Transmuting Trauma into Self-Love
What if our deepest wounds weren’t meant to break us, but to guide us? What if every painful experience, every trauma, every heartbreak...
Sherri Bence
Mar 12 min read
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