The Greatest Pursuit of Human Life is Love, Not Money

In a world that often measures success in dollars and possessions, it’s easy to get swept up in the chase for financial security and material achievements. But, if there’s one lesson life has shown me repeatedly, it’s that true fulfillment doesn’t come from what’s in our bank accounts. Instead, it’s the intangible currency of love—love for ourselves, our families, our communities, and even for strangers—that shapes a life worth living.

We’ve all felt the pull of money, haven’t we? Society tells us to climb higher, earn more, and upgrade everything. But let’s be real: have you ever found yourself genuinely happy just from a paycheck or a shiny new gadget? Maybe there’s a spark of excitement, but it fades. On the other hand, think of those moments when someone you care about reached out just because, when a friend or family member showed up for you, or when you gave someone a helping hand. Those moments stick, don’t they? They don’t fade like the excitement of new things; instead, they deepen and add layers to who we are.

Love has this beautiful, transformative power. When we focus on the relationships we’re building, on the lives we’re touching, we’re aligning ourselves with something timeless. This love isn’t limited to romance; it’s in every gesture of kindness, every connection, every community we invest in. Imagine the ripple effect if we approached our work, our friendships, and even our interactions with strangers with the same energy we often reserve for our financial goals.

Let’s take a step back and ask ourselves, “When all is said and done, what do I want to be remembered for?” For me, it’s not about being known for possessions or how much money I made. I want to be remembered for how I made people feel, for the way I lifted others up, and for how I showed up for those I love. That’s a legacy that money could never buy.

Of course, money has its place; I won’t deny that. It can offer security, comfort, and opportunities. But it’s essential to remember it’s just a tool, not the end goal. Real wealth is in the relationships we nurture, the compassion we share, and the love we both give and receive. At the end of the day, it’s love that fills us up and makes life truly rich.

So let’s refocus. Let’s pursue love in all its forms—with the people around us, in our passions, and in how we show up for ourselves. Because when the world fades away, love is what lasts.

Stay sunny,

Sherri Lee Sunshine