Sometimes the most radical thing we can do is trust that we’re already aligned.
We get so caught up in chasing, fixing, proving, healing, and transforming, that we forget to pause and recognize: we are already inside the blessing. Not headed there. Not waiting for it. In it. Right now.
Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how much I’ve grown—not just in the visible ways, but in the invisible ones. The kind you don’t get credit for. Like the way I hold space for myself on hard days. The way I anchor into gratitude when fear tries to take over. The way I walk away from things that no longer match my energy, even if my heart still lingers a little.
That’s healing. That’s grace. That’s power.
The truth is, there isn’t a single part of my soul I haven’t touched with love. I’ve nurtured wounds that no one even saw. I’ve reclaimed pieces of myself I thought were lost in the chaos. And in doing that—I’ve become someone I’m proud of.
And yet, my mind will sometimes whisper:
“You should be further by now.”
“Maybe you’re doing something wrong.”
“Why does it still feel hard?”
But here’s the shift: I don’t let those thoughts take the lead anymore. I ground myself. I breathe. I remind myself: you’re doing everything right.
Because growing in the same environment that once broke you isn’t weakness—it’s magic. It’s proof of your evolution. The past version of me wouldn’t have had the tools to hold this moment with such softness. But now? I’m here. And I’m not going back.
So if you’re reading this, and you’ve been questioning your pace, your progress, or your path—let me lovingly interrupt that thought spiral:
You’re not behind. You’re blooming.
And maybe your magic doesn’t look like anyone else’s. Maybe it’s quieter. Softer. Deeper. But that doesn’t make it any less real.
Trust your timing. Drown out the noise. Tune into the melody of your intuition.
The Universe always has the final word.
And babe, that word is: “Yes.”